Breaking Barriers and Embracing the Journey: Our Stella's Story

I first started following Stella’s journey a while back, and was instantly smitten by her adorable personality and Chelsea's vulnerability in sharing their experiences navigating Stella’s Down syndrome diagnosis. Chelsea’s courage in sharing all that she faces as Stella’s mom is truly awe-inspiring.

For Chelsea, one of the biggest challenges of Stella’s Down syndrome diagnosis isn’t just managing the endless appointments and therapies—though there are certainly plenty of those. It’s finding a balance between everything that needs to be done while still trusting that loving Stella and encouraging her is enough.

“At times, I feel like I have to do it all myself,” Chelsea admits. “But I’m learning that my love and belief in her mean more than anything. That’s what matters the most.”

Another challenge Chelsea faces is worrying about whether Stella will be accepted by society. Despite the progress being made, there are still many stigmas surrounding Down syndrome. As Stella’s mom, she feels it’s her responsibility to help change that. “It’s a big part of my job to show the world that Stella is just like any other child—she has her own needs, her own desires, and she deserves the same respect and opportunities as everyone else,” Chelsea explains.

When I asked Chelsea what she hopes to instill in Stella as she grows up, her answer is simple but powerful: “I want Stella to know that she can do anything she puts her mind to. She may have to work a little harder, but with hard work and determination, she can achieve anything.”


Motherhood, as Chelsea has learned, requires a lot of patience. “At first, I struggled not to compare her journey to others,” she reflects. “But now, I know that Stella is on her own path. She’s growing at her own pace, and I’m here to cheer her on, every step of the way.”

One of the things Chelsea is most proud of is Stella’s determination. “She has such a strong personality,” Chelsea says with a smile. “She’s stubborn in all the best ways. Once she knows what she wants, she goes for it. I admire that so much about her.”

For parents who may be on a similar journey, Chelsea has some heartfelt advice: “I used to think I would be afraid of having a child who was looked at as different. But honestly, it’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me. Being Stella’s mom has opened my eyes in so many ways. Different isn’t a bad thing—it’s just different. And all our children, no matter their ability, need the same things: love, encouragement, and the belief that they can do anything.”One of the moments that brings Chelsea the most joy is dressing Stella up. “What I love most about dressing her in EleStory is that her personality shines through instantly,” Chelsea says. “She had so much fun crawling around in this dress—it made her feel like the cutest princess. Honestly, I melted as soon as I put it on her. Plus, it’s so soft and comfortable. She absolutely loved it!”

For Chelsea, every day is a new opportunity to support her daughter, watch her grow, and help break down the barriers that still exist in society. “I’m so proud of Stella,” Chelsea says. “She’s already doing things I never thought possible, and I can’t wait to see where her determination and spirit take her next.”

You can follow along with Chelsea and Stella’s journey on Instagram at @ourstellasstory.

Thank you, Chelsea and Stella, for the honor of getting to share a slice of your inspiring story. 

xo,
Judy